Yesterday my first cousin had his Graduation Party. It was a nice chance to see some of my favorite family members before we leave for GA.
One excentric aunt that I have was there. She proceeded to say to my mom, “So, they’re leaving you AGAIN?” and my mom said, “Yep, I guess they think I’m strong and can take it.” Uhmmm Ok.. Plus, this was said while I was sitting right there. Oh how I love when people talk about you, in front of you, like you aren’t even there. Whatever. I guess they are practicing. They just don’t get it!
Then there was one of our family friends. She asked me how I felt and was I happy about the move? I said, “Well, I’m not happy about moving away from my family but I am happy about moving back to Georgia.” She smiled and said that there’s more to life than living by your immediate family and that we were looking out for our future, our kids’ futures, and our quality of life. SHE GETS IT! Someone ‘effing gets it!
You know, if we spent OUR lives living for our parents, we’d be stymied mental midgets and our kids would probably be the same, more or less. The road is before us and the future’s so bright, we gotta wear shades.