“Once you put your hand in the flame, You can never be the same”

Day 23

There’s another way my blogging career could have gone if I didn’t go down this avenue of mama-photog-blogger.   I could have totally had an eroticablog.  I would have filled it with erotic fiction, sensual poetry, and personal stories filled with heated details.   Lest I not forget the imagery; sexy self portraits that show just enough to get the imagination working.

Alas, I became a mother and soon abandoned my erotic story bulletin boards for they stork filled ones.    Sure, I still talked about sex on private mommy boards–oh did I ever talk about it–but it wasn’t the same as posting on a board with horny women and men who had [dildos and cleavage and erect penises] as their avatars.    My avatar was always my eyes, but I digress.

Fact of the matter is, I still like sex even though I’m a mother of four.  I like to daydream about it, read about it, write about it, and–of course–do it.   A healthy sex life goes a long way.  I know that when I’m not entering the Land of Orgasms on a regular basis, I am not a very happy person.  However, if I visit O Land regularly, I am relaxed and content.

Another fact is that my other half is not here for certain periods of time.   A strain in the sex department?  No way.  All I need is some good erotic fiction and Bob.   Bob?  Yes, Bob.  No, I am not an adulteress.  B.O.B stands for Battery Operated Boyfriend.  Oh no she didn’t?  Oh yes I did!

In honor of all things sexy and erotic, and what this blog might have been had I not become the mama-photog-blogger that I am, you know–the one that is a finalist in the 2009 Weblog Awards in the Photography Category–I’m having a contest.   I invite you to visit Eden Fantasys and tell me what one thing you would love to buy with a $65 gift certificate, in the comment section.  Tweet about this post and you get an extra entry.  Subscribe to my feed and get another entry.  Post about my contest on your blog with a link back to here and you’ll get a fourth chance!   Just make sure you let me know what you did for your entries in your comment.   So, ultimately, you have FOUR chances to win something from Eden Fantasys!

I recommend an intimate gift or something sensual or something to make you feel totally sexy!

The contest will run until January 30th, 2009 at 3pm EST (comments/trackbacks closed at 2pm EST)

Good Luck!

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121 Responses to ““Once you put your hand in the flame, You can never be the same””
  1. 01.28.2009

    Woohoo! Jockpot giveaway! I love this site, and I would definately buy the black corset and the vibrating ring. Fun times! Thanks so much for an awesome giveaway! I hope you have a wonderful day!

    diane@diane-anderson.com

  2. Jacqueline in Atlanta
    01.28.2009

    Sorry, but we Southern gals just don’t spill the beans about those kinds of things in public. In the parlour, to our girlfriends, after three glasses of wine, perhaps, but not on a public forum. However, I can assure you, that GC would be well spent and well USED in the privacy of my locked and shuttered bedroom. giggle, giggle.

    Thanks for having the giveaway!

  3. vickie
    01.28.2009

    so much to choose from … I made my choice but would love to keep it ‘tween me and hubby!! But it’s a great choice

  4. Jennifer
    01.28.2009

    I would have to agree with the comment that there are too many fun things to choose so I would probably give it to my hubby and let him pick something to surprise me with!

  5. meghan
    01.28.2009

    Wow! The perfect thing to win–something that wouldn’t be seen as a necessity but would be enjoyed! Yes, a personal toy.

  6. Lisa P
    01.28.2009

    Ah I Love sex, fetishes, sexiness. Just wish I got more LOL I would pick Hustler Joltin’ Johnson. Looks real good to me

  7. 01.28.2009

    Not quite what I expected, but I’m not going to let a flushed face stop me from looking. I’d probably get a game…like the Sex Casino. Maybe a massage kit. That’d make for a fun night!

  8. 01.28.2009

    Subscribed in google reader under erinstargirl{at}msn{dot}com

  9. 01.28.2009

    And I tweeted here :
    http://twitter.com/MrsCox/status/1156753718

    Good luck {and congrats on the nom} with the Weblog awards :)

  10. amyb
    01.28.2009

    i think i would try the “my first sex toy” kit. never tried anything before and i think we could use a little spice! hubby would be T.H.R.I.L.L.E.D!!!!

  11. 01.28.2009

    I would get the naughty nurse costume, lol… we never “role play” but it could be fun!
    wonderfullymade729 at gmail dot com

  12. 01.28.2009

    subscribed!
    wonderfullymade729 at gmail dot com

  13. 01.28.2009

    ohh I feel your pain about your hubs being away…mine is in the AF and currently on a year long ‘vacation’. I would probably buy one of the glass dildo’s I’ve wanted to try it, since watching how they make them on ‘Real Sex’.

  14. amber
    01.28.2009

    I love Eden Fantasys! They’re reviews are the coolest, I post there sometimes. Your photography is gorgeous! No wonder you were a finalist.

    If I win, I would probably buy the Natural Contours Ideal, I heard it’s really good! Wireless unlike the Hitachi, which is nice! :)

    Thanks!!
    shevilkenevil1 at aol dot com

  15. 01.28.2009

    i subscribed for your RSS feed via Yahoo reader also.

  16. carrie
    01.28.2009

    Had to wait until i left work to check out the site :) I think I’d like to try the JO gift pack. But there are lots of other good options there!

    adorablyconfused at hotmail dot com

  17. chris swan
    01.28.2009

    Tee Hee I would say I’d get the candy bra and more….

  18. beth shepherd
    01.28.2009

    Thank you for having this!
    I would love to win. My husband would love it if I got some stockings and panties :)
    Thank you
    tatertot374@sbcglobal.net

  19. Merry
    01.28.2009

    Thanks for the great giveaway! I’m a little overwhelmed by the selection, so I think I’d have to go for a sexy chemise (and maybe my own little Bob).

  20. Merry
    01.28.2009

    Subscribed!

  21. Halifax
    01.28.2009

    I’d go bold and choose the sexy police woman costume. Thanks

  22. Paula H
    01.28.2009

    I would put it towards the Leau a deux – Sensual bath kit. Sounds fun.

  23. Kristina
    01.28.2009

    Oh, how wonderful you sweet woman! I would get myself a nice vibrator, if I won! Thank you! KMC3050@gmail.com

  24. Reeva
    01.28.2009

    I love your candor. Too cool! I’d get one of those remote eggs so dh and i can go out to a restaurant or to the movies and mess around! I am loving this giveaway a bit too much lol I hope I’m chosen as the winner!!!

  25. Reeva
    01.28.2009

    I subscribed to your blog

  26. Victoira
    01.28.2009

    I’d love to get an erotic book like Lust and some other “accessories”! BEST GIVEAWAY!!!!!

  27. Patricia
    01.28.2009

    Oh my I didn’t know what a BOB was, I like the Incognito lipstick vibe

  28. 01.28.2009

    my hubs wants a swing. a lot.

  29. 01.28.2009

    Great giveaway! I would love some new lingerie like the Polka dot passion corset! Thanks for the chance to win!

  30. MRS.MOMMYY
    01.29.2009

    Leau a deux

  31. 01.29.2009

    I just got a reality shock at how sheltered I’ve been….I’m staring at the screen and tilting my head sideways to figure out exactly how some of those things work. Let’s go for broke..I’m going to go with the Gianni because you can never have enough toys in your life!

  32. 01.29.2009

    I’m subscribed via google reader

  33. bunny
    01.29.2009

    I’d get the Dirty Cop costume :)

  34. Karen A.
    01.29.2009

    I’m not shy!! I want the Jack Rabbit vibrator.

  35. Cori Westphal
    01.29.2009

    I like the Leau a deux sensual kit. Thanks!

  36. Cori Westphal
    01.29.2009
  37. Cori Westphal
    01.29.2009

    I’ve subscribed via google.

  38. Amy B.
    01.29.2009

    I would pick the couples kit. Something for me and my hubby in it. Thanks for the chance..

  39. 01.29.2009

    Definitely some lingerie.

  40. Lesly O
    01.29.2009

    I would by some erotic novels. I love to read and those can really get you in the mood.

  41. Eva D
    01.29.2009

    Im not to embarrassed to say I like the platinum fusion 1, looks interesting but I must say I like all of them on the page. I would also choose something on this page for the hubby

    Thank you for being part of the Bloggy giveaway.
    texasgirl(at)rocketmail(dot)com

  42. ikkinlala
    01.29.2009

    I’d try a vibrator – I’m not sure which one.

  43. Alissa Schrader
    01.29.2009

    I’d have to pick up a new “Bullet Egg” because mine is dying. *CRY* its my favorite. and Im sexually open so I will say it makes time in the bedroom with my boyfriend 2x better than it already is w/o.

    since those are only like $10 or less I’d also have to get a UR3® vibrating cock because thats just awesome. it suctions onto something. AMAZING!

    Aschrader85(at)gmail(dot)com

  44. teresa
    01.29.2009

    Orgasmic foreplay kit. Who wouldnt love it lol. This is the best giveaway! :)

  45. Alibi
    01.29.2009

    Down and Dirty Sex Secrets is what i’ll say i’m getting ;)
    Who knows what I will actually get though if I win. :D

  46. Alibi
    01.29.2009

    I’m subscribed via google reader.
    Thanks~


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